top of page

Brothers Speak

The greatest proof that Brotherhood Forged works isn't what we say about it. It's what the men inside it say.

Real Men. Real Growth. Real Stories

We didn't build Brotherhood Forged to impress anyone. We built it because men are hurting, drifting, and doing life alone when they were never designed to.

These are the stories of men who decided enough was enough. Men who stepped into the forge and came out stronger -- spiritually, physically, mentally, and relationally.

This is what happens when men stop settling and start growing together.

Ryan..

Casual headshot .png

"As a member of the BF from its inception, I have been the benefactor of the space Joey and Paul provide to grow closer to men and in my relationship with God. This has had numerous positive effects on my relationships and my walk with the Lord.
The BF is what God meant for men when he said " Iron sharpens iron" in Proverbs 27:17 and "And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another..."  in Hebrews 10: 24-25.  
The BF is an encouraging and safe space for men to share and help other men through life's trials and tribulations as a community. "

Austin Y..

IMG_3418.jpeg

"I’ve known Paul for years through other online men’s organizations and have often sought his leadership and advice.

When I heard he had launched something new, I decided to give it a try and began listening to several podcast episodes. I hadn’t met Joey before, but the dynamic energy between him and Paul—what I like to call the “PB&J effect”—was both fulfilling and inspiring.  
What really drew me in was the Christ-centered message. It was refreshing to find a men’s growth community grounded in faith rather than the macho attitudes that sometimes surface in this space. I’d been looking for a smaller, agile group rooted in Christian values and focused on authentic, faith-inspired growth—and Bro4ged was exactly that.  

I was baptized one year ago on Easter weekend and became a Catholic and faith leader for my family. Since then, I’ve grown tremendously—as a disciple of Christ, a seeker of faith, and simply as a man, husband, father, and friend. I’ve never looked back, and I wholeheartedly recommend this powerful and inspiring men’s group to anyone ready to ignite their spiritual growth. " 

Jared K..

"When I became involved in Brotherhood Forged I was recently separated and beginning the divorce process. Having this space to lean in, learn from others who had walked a similar road, and simply be heard changed everything for me. My faith and commitment to God has grown through the wisdom and guidance of men on the same journey. I can express my faith or just listen with zero fear of judgment. We are all men seeking to make our way to Heaven and help our fellow brothers get there too."

WhatsApp Image 2026-04-10 at 16.25.37.jpeg

Andy L..

WhatsApp Image 2026-04-13 at 06.45.43.jpeg

"I stepped up and joined the Brotherhood Forged, and it transformed everything. These brothers celebrate my wins and stand strong with me through every struggle—they support me no matter what. They give me a raw, honest space to speak truth when I’m lost or questioning my path, while showing me how to put God first, chase His image with discipline, and lead my family without excuses. Now my walk with Christ is stronger than ever, I’m guiding my kids toward Him with purpose, and I own the fact that every man’s journey is unique—but mine is mine to build every single day."

Josh D..

Joey and Paul came into my life through another men’s organization in a turbulent time of my life. I was separated and going through the divorce process and they were solid rocks for me through it all. They helped me navigate it while helping steer me back into my walk with the Lord, and have continued to be Godly men for me and many others since, so when I found out they were starting this podcast and mastermind, I jumped on board, because they have a fire for the Lord that you can’t explain, you just have to be a part of it. This men’s group has brought me closer to the Lord in my own walk, and myself and the men in this group wouldn’t have it any other way!

IMG_7771.jpeg
bforg - 2.jpeg

Matt S..

"When I first joined, the idea of meeting weekly with “internet guys” felt a little strange, but it’s been one of the best investments I’ve made for myself and my family. This group has played a huge role in shaping who I am as a husband, father, and leader. Having a community to lean on, learn from, and contribute to has been something I didn’t realize I needed and now I can’t imagine doing life without it."

Josh L..

"As a member of BF for 6 weeks now I feel as I have been here for a lifetime. I’ve known Joey and Paul for several years and the space they have created for like minded men to seek and follow Christ and the knowledge they bring to those men is invaluable. They provide space for men to express themselves without judgement. I pray everyday for these gentleman in allowing men to follow the word of Christ and grow as men of God. "

bforg - 1.jpeg

David H..

David Hesselmeyer - headshot.JPG

I am so thankful that God led me to Brotherhood Forged.  I had met Joey and Paul before and had built a friendship with them so when they start Brotherhood Forged, I was already intrigued.  Unfortunately, being a busy person, I had hesitations to joining as I did not want to be that person that was a member and did not contribute. Paul and Joey never once tried to force my hand to join even when I would call on them for guidance or support.  They made sure that I knew that BF was there and that many of the guys in it would love to have me.  So, I joined and I am so glad I did.  I love being a part of the group and spending time with everyone.

Brotherhood Forged has been so much of a blessing.  First, Paul and Joey want the best for all the people in the group.  They constantly work to make sure that the group is growing individually and together (not as membership but as learning or bettering ourselves).  They take honest feedback and consider making changes based on that.  They have built an all for one and one for all group.  In addition, they do not sell the group or things.  They want to invite anyone who can benefit from it but also know not everyone will fit or gain from the group and that is okay to them.  They want what is best for each person.  Secondly, the people within this group are stellar (but not perfect).  We are a bunch of people that love the Lord, know we are sinners and have issues, and want to do life together.  Some of the friendships I have forged with brothers in this group are strong and I would not take anything for them.  Finally, I love how we all build each other up.  There is no drama in this group, and everyone is open.  I feel that we are all so comfortable with each other that we have said things in our sessions that we have not told many other people.  That is the comfort level and trust we build. 

Needless to say, Brotherhood Forged is an important part of my life and as long as God leads me to be part of this group, I will be part of it.  The monetary cost, which is minimal at most, is such a small cost for Joey and Paul to run all the stuff they do to make this all possible.  God bless them, God bless our men, and God bless you. 

Ready to Be Forged?

The fire is where strength is built. Step in.

  • Instagram
  • Facebook
  • YouTube
  • TikTok

Paul Bengel and Joey Koontz,

Co-Owners, Co-Hosts Brotherhood Forged LLC.

Brotherhood Forged. EST 04/2025

bottom of page