What Members are saying..
and the wives of PB & J..
Real Men. Real Transformation.
Real Men. Real Growth. Real Stories
We didn't build Brotherhood Forged to impress anyone. We built it because men are hurting, drifting, and doing life alone when they were never designed to.
These are the stories of men who decided enough was enough. Men who stepped into the forge and came out stronger -- spiritually, physically, mentally, and relationally.
This is what happens when men stop settling and start growing together.
Rob..
Son | Husband | Father | Brother
As a Christian man, you have this idea in your head of who you want to be. Then reality sets in and you realize you are not that man yet. But that does not mean it is not possible.
Brotherhood Forged has offered me a place to be authentically me, with room to grow, evolve, and become better as I walk a path of glorifying Christ.
Men take on a variety of roles. Sons. Husbands. Fathers. Friends. Brothers. The brotherhood portion is the support we sometimes overlook in our lives, except for here.
This is a place I truly feel I was led by the Spirit to be.
Ryan..
"As a member of the BF from its inception, I have been the benefactor of the space Joey and Paul provide to grow closer to men and in my relationship with God. This has had numerous positive effects on my relationships and my walk with the Lord.
The BF is what God meant for men when he said " Iron sharpens iron" in Proverbs 27:17 and "And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another..." in Hebrews 10: 24-25.
The BF is an encouraging and safe space for men to share and help other men through life's trials and tribulations as a community. "
Austin Y..
"I’ve known Paul for years through other online men’s organizations and have often sought his leadership and advice.
When I heard he had launched something new, I decided to give it a try and began listening to several podcast episodes. I hadn’t met Joey before, but the dynamic energy between him and Paul—what I like to call the “PB&J effect”—was both fulfilling and inspiring.
What really drew me in was the Christ-centered message. It was refreshing to find a men’s growth community grounded in faith rather than the macho attitudes that sometimes surface in this space. I’d been looking for a smaller, agile group rooted in Christian values and focused on authentic, faith-inspired growth—and Bro4ged was exactly that.
I was baptized one year ago on Easter weekend and became a Catholic and faith leader for my family. Since then, I’ve grown tremendously—as a disciple of Christ, a seeker of faith, and simply as a man, husband, father, and friend. I’ve never looked back, and I wholeheartedly recommend this powerful and inspiring men’s group to anyone ready to ignite their spiritual growth. "
Jared K..
"When I became involved in Brotherhood Forged I was recently separated and beginning the divorce process. Having this space to lean in, learn from others who had walked a similar road, and simply be heard changed everything for me. My faith and commitment to God has grown through the wisdom and guidance of men on the same journey. I can express my faith or just listen with zero fear of judgment. We are all men seeking to make our way to Heaven and help our fellow brothers get there too."
Andy L..
"I stepped up and joined the Brotherhood Forged, and it transformed everything. These brothers celebrate my wins and stand strong with me through every struggle—they support me no matter what. They give me a raw, honest space to speak truth when I’m lost or questioning my path, while showing me how to put God first, chase His image with discipline, and lead my family without excuses. Now my walk with Christ is stronger than ever, I’m guiding my kids toward Him with purpose, and I own the fact that every man’s journey is unique—but mine is mine to build every single day."
Josh D..
Joey and Paul came into my life through another men’s organization in a turbulent time of my life. I was separated and going through the divorce process and they were solid rocks for me through it all. They helped me navigate it while helping steer me back into my walk with the Lord, and have continued to be Godly men for me and many others since, so when I found out they were starting this podcast and mastermind, I jumped on board, because they have a fire for the Lord that you can’t explain, you just have to be a part of it. This men’s group has brought me closer to the Lord in my own walk, and myself and the men in this group wouldn’t have it any other way!
Matt S..
"When I first joined, the idea of meeting weekly with “internet guys” felt a little strange, but it’s been one of the best investments I’ve made for myself and my family. This group has played a huge role in shaping who I am as a husband, father, and leader. Having a community to lean on, learn from, and contribute to has been something I didn’t realize I needed and now I can’t imagine doing life without it."
Josh L..
"As a member of BF for 6 weeks now I feel as I have been here for a lifetime. I’ve known Joey and Paul for several years and the space they have created for like minded men to seek and follow Christ and the knowledge they bring to those men is invaluable. They provide space for men to express themselves without judgement. I pray everyday for these gentleman in allowing men to follow the word of Christ and grow as men of God. "
David H..
I am so thankful that God led me to Brotherhood Forged.
I had met Joey and Paul before and built a friendship with them, so when they started Brotherhood Forged I was already intrigued. Being a busy person, I had hesitations about joining. I did not want to be that guy who signed up and never contributed. But Joey and Paul never once tried to force my hand, even when I called on them for guidance or support. They simply made sure I knew that BF was there and that the men in it would love to have me. So I joined, and I am so glad I did.
Brotherhood Forged has been a genuine blessing in more ways than one.
First, Joey and Paul want the absolute best for every person in this group. They constantly work to help everyone grow individually and together, not in membership numbers but in learning and becoming better men. They take honest feedback seriously and make changes when needed. They have built an all for one, one for all culture. And they do not sell you anything. They want to invite anyone who can benefit, but they also understand that not everyone will fit, and they are okay with that. They want what is best for each person.
Second, the men in this group are stellar, though not perfect. We are a community of people who love the Lord, know we are sinners, have real issues, and want to do life together. Some of the friendships I have built with brothers in this group are among the strongest in my life, and I would not trade them for anything.
Finally, I love how we build each other up. There is no drama. Everyone is open. We have said things in our sessions that we have never told most people in our lives. That is the level of comfort and trust that has been built here.
Brotherhood Forged is an important part of my life, and as long as God leads me here, I will be here. The cost is minimal compared to everything Joey and Paul pour into making this possible. God bless them, God bless our men, and God bless you.
Geoff B..
Brotherhood Forged has given me a consistent weekly touchpoint through devotionals and Holy Spirit-led discussions on our Wednesday night discipleship calls.
It has connected me with believers in different stages of their walk with Christ, and that has given me more insight, perspective, and practical tools as I lead my life.
What makes it different is the community.
There are real discussions, real problems, real vulnerability, and real insight that leads to real impact in the lives of the members and the people closest to them.
I am deeply thankful for this group of men and for the way God is using them to sharpen one another and further His kingdom.
Joey is excellent at building and maintaining genuine relationships among men, and Paul brings deep insight, strong mindset, and the kind of attentive listening and reflection that actually helps people grow.
Both of them live what they preach and display the fruit of the Spirit.
If you are a man who wants to be surrounded by other men looking to Christ for leadership — whether you are 30 years into your walk or searching for something more — this is for you.
Richie L..
Brotherhood Forged is the community you didn't know you needed — until you got it and wondered why you waited to jump in.
Separated geographically, but the connection with these men is closer than most people I see every day.
This online community has provided me with a trusted, open space to be the most authentic person I can be and not feel shamed or inadequate.
When I am open, honest, and real, the response is not pointing fingers about how I should be different. It's arms around the shoulders with, "What can we do to help?"
Listening to the podcast is just the tip of the iceberg of what this community has to offer.
There are a lot of things in life pulling for our attention. If we aren't intentional about where it goes, we will easily drift to wherever life takes us.
Being a part of Brotherhood Forged is being intentional about where I want life to go — and having brothers to walk with as we go there together.
Bobbie K.. (Joey's Wife)
Bobbie Koontz Wife of 33 Years | Joey's Biggest Fan and Toughest Critic
I will be honest with you. When Joey told me about Brotherhood Forged, I was supportive but I had seen this movie before. Joey has a gift for starting things with everything he has got, and then life happens. So I smiled, encouraged him, and quietly wondered how long this one would last.
One year later, I am the one who owes him an apology.
He has not let his foot off the gas for a single day. But more than the commitment, it is what I see in him at home that has changed me from a quiet skeptic to his loudest supporter.
Joey is calmer. He responds now instead of reacts. Being right used to matter a lot to him. It just does not anymore. He is quicker to own his mistakes than to defend himself, and that is not a small thing after 33 years together.
What moves me most is watching him become the man spiritually that I always knew he could be. He is not perfect and he will tell you that himself. But he wakes up every day genuinely trying to honor God, serve others, and grow. He is less focused on himself than I have ever seen him. That kind of change does not stay between a husband and wife. It reaches your whole family.
To any wife reading this who is on the fence, do not think of it as another expense. Think of it as one of the smallest investments you will ever make for one of the biggest returns you will ever see. Not just in your husband, but in your marriage, your family, and his walk with God.
I am proud of him. And I am grateful for the men around him who help him keep going.
Amber B.. (Paul's Wife)
As the wife of one of the co-owners of Brotherhood Forged, I’ve had a front-row seat to what this really is, and it’s so much more than a podcast or a community.
I’ve watched my husband pour himself into this. Not just his time, but his heart, his faith, and his desire to become a better man for our family and for others. What started as a vision has turned into something real, something that’s helping men show up differently in their lives.
But honestly, what means the most to me isn’t just what I see online, it’s what I’ve experienced at home.
I’ve seen growth in him. I’ve seen the way he’s more present, more intentional, more grounded in who he’s called to be. And I’ve seen that same kind of change ripple out into the men who are part of this brotherhood. Stronger husbands, more engaged fathers, men who are willing to be honest, to grow, and to show up when it matters.
That kind of impact doesn’t stay inside a group. It reaches families. It reaches homes. And as a wife and a mom, that means everything to me.
Brotherhood Forged isn’t just something he’s building, it’s something he truly believes in. And I’m proud to stand behind a mission that’s not just changing men, but strengthening families in the process.
Ed D..
I am truly blessed and privileged to be part of a brotherhood where we do life together, share each other's burdens, encourage one another, and hold each other accountable in truth and love. Finding such a community, especially in a virtual space, is exceedingly rare.
Over the past few years, Joey and Paul have consistently spoken truth into my life. They've demonstrated servant leadership and possess wisdom that far exceeds their years. They are relentless in their pursuit of what is right and good, surrounding themselves with pastors and teachers who embody the love of Christ and the transformative power of His Gospel.
